If you have young kids, you have a busy life.  Add to that a romantic relationship and a job and you start to think that you have to cut things out of your life that you value in order to make it all work.  Usually, the first things to go are the things that give you energy and feed your soul because you feel like you have to take care of everyone else in your life first. I’ve definitely felt this way.  I’ve got three kids, ages 5, 9 and 11, a full-time job as a finance exec with an hour and a half commute each way and a totally amazing husband.  I often feel like I’m not spending enough quality time with my family or enough time nurturing myself. It’s easy to focus on the negatives in any situation instead of acknowledging all the good.  I feel like I should be doing a better job at all this but wonder how the heck to make it happen. That’s why I jumped at the chance to read and review a new book:  I Know How She Does It: How Successful Women Make the Most of Their Time by Laura Vanderkam. Laura is something of